The viral Kaun Banega Crorepati (KBC) video of young contestant Ishit Bhatt has started a heated discussion online — are single children really spoiled? Many people assume that children without siblings are selfish or less social, but new research and psychologists disagree.
Experts say that a child’s behaviour depends more on parenting style and emotional care than on the number of siblings. A single child raised with love, discipline, and independence can grow up to be just as kind, patient, and emotionally balanced as those with brothers or sisters.
According to clinical psychologist Dr. Saakshi Batra, several studies by researchers like Toni Falbo and Denise Polit reviewed over 100 studies on single children. They found no proof that only children are lonely, spoiled, or poorly adjusted. In fact, many single children perform better in school, have stronger verbal skills, and share closer bonds with their parents.
Psychologists explain that single children often develop mature communication and empathy because they spend more time talking to adults. The problem only appears when affection isn’t balanced with rules — for example, when every demand is met quickly or when the child never faces frustration. Such situations can lead to low patience and difficulty dealing with peers.
In India, the concept of “six-pocket syndrome”—where parents and grandparents overindulge a single child—has some truth. When too many adults spoil a child, it can reduce their ability to handle challenges or disappointments. However, that alone doesn’t make them “spoiled.” The emotional environment still plays the biggest role.
Interestingly, many Indian single children may grow up more empathetic, especially when they live in joint families or stay connected with cousins. Such environments help them learn cooperation, respect, and emotional balance.
The key takeaway is simple: it’s not about how many siblings a child has, but how they’re raised. A mix of love, boundaries, and real-life experiences helps children — whether single or not — grow into confident, kind, and adaptable adults.
